Self love

Hey guys, so todays blog is all about self worth, body image and just loving yourself in general. Make sure to leave a like,comment and click that follow button to see more of what I post, I upload on Tuesdays and Saturdays and with that if you are struggling with this then just keep reading.

Todays’ generation is influenced by what others think is “perfect”. We put a label on something that we think is “right” and suddenly everyone/ everything needs to become that “right” thing or that “perfect” thing. This can be your body, your house, your job and even your pets, but just because something does not meet societys idea of perfect does NOT mean that it is not beautiful in its’ own, unique way. In my opinion there is no such thing as perfect. If we were all perfect nobody would stand out, and nobody would be different. If we all looked like eachother, what would make us interesting. We are beautiful. Our lives are beautiful. Why do we not see that? I just want to say something to you reading this right now! Yes you! I don’t care what size or shape or race you are because you are you, you are beautiful and don’t listen to anyone who says different. Self-love is a growing problem. No not people loving themselves, it’s people who aren’t. Who don’t see how unique and wonderful they are. Who feel that in order to fit societys mould they have to be a certain way. I don’t want to fit the mould because I am me and there is nothing more amazing than that. So society this blog is dedicated to you and I just want to say. YOU SUCK! WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL, UNIQUE,KIND,LOVING,COMPASSIONATE,CARING, EQUAL,WONDERFUL IN OUR OWN UNIQUE WAYS. NOBODY CAN DO ME LIKE ME OR YOU LIKE YOU SO DON’T LET ANYONE TELL YOU THAT YOU AREN’T BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE YOU ARE!

I hope you enjoyed this blog make sure to leave a like and I will be uploading soon X

Hard change

Hey guys! So recently my life has been bombarded with change, some good and some bad. So in today’s blog I wanted to share with you how to deal with hard change. Make sure to leave a like,comment and click that follow button to see more of what I post. I uploading on Saturdays and Tuesdays and if you are interested in finding out more just carry on reading!

So change whether good or bad is different and one thing can cause lots of other thugs to change. If you think of it like rain on a lake, every drop of water that falls leaves a ripple in the water, change is just the same. Recently I have gone through some changes and one of them being in school, I feel as though my two best friends and me have finally parted. However because of this it has meant that I have met and become close to so many people who I love dearly and could not live without. But how do you deal with it?

Well honestly this may be bad advice but you just got to roll with it. If you carry on and just ride the wave you will always end up somewhere and if you don’t like where you find yourself, you can hop on another wave and create more change. Change can make you stronger, and even when you feel down and like you don’t know where you are going, you will come out a changed person. People change and deal with change in their own ways. Some block people out where others prefer to be around those they know and love. Personally I have to deal with change on my own because I have to make up my own mind and not be influenced by what others think.

Change is inevitable and in order for you to grow as a person you need to figure out your way of dealing with it. Anyways guys hope you enjoyed, make sure to leave a some love and I will be uploading soon

My spirituality

Hey guys! So as I think most of you know, I have dabbled in tarot for a while now so I thought I would share with you my honest experiences with tarot and my spirituality. Make sure to leave a like,comment and click follow to see more of what I want and if you want to know more then just keep reading…

So for the month of October I challenged myself to do a tarot reading every morning along with my daily horoscope. I am a believer of these things and found that tarot only truly works fully on those who believe in it whole-heartedly. I had many encounters and weird, I want to say coincidences but they weren’t. In my opinion tarot truly works and has made me feel so connected to my spirituality because of these said experiences. Tarot is said to be a form of black magic but I don’t see it as a negative thing because I do it with a positive mindset. However, since doing tarot ghostly things have been happening and I do not know if it is connected in some form…it’s just weirdly timed.
If you want to know what happened, let me know and I will update you guys on that. I have also tried meditation and found that it helped me and my anxiety so much because it truly puts you in a peaceful mood. I do it before bed and sometimes if I have time on a morning. It sets a positive tone for my day as being a student can get quite stressful and I need to take a breather. Further more, I filled out a habit and mood tracker to see what I was doing to make me feel certain ways along with journaling to kind of link my mood and my actions and see what makes me feel good/bad. These things helped me so much and I filled a notebook called my mind, body and soul book with notes and horoscopes.

Let me know if you try any of these and I will be uploading soon

My updated skincare routine

Heyyyy you lovely bunch of bloggers! I know that you guys have all been asking for this especially on my instagram so here is my updated skincare routine and some of the tips I have for those of you in school to keep your skin looking glowing and radiant. Of course as always make sure to leave a like, comment some things that you use and follow my instagram @lif3s_little_things and with that lets go!!!

Firstly I start by washing my face with a face wash, really whatever is lying around which is normally the simple kind to skin moisturising facial wash. It does i’s job really well and you know that feeling you get when your skin is squeaky clean? Just me? Well anyway this is what your face will feel like after using this!

Next I go in with a mask on those days where my skin is looking a bit dull and needs a boost. I personally use a charcoal mask called the beauty formulas clay mask with activated charcoal because it really helps to get rid of any deep rooted dirt under the surface of your skin.

Then as always the godsend Mario badesco rose water facial spray which was in my favourites for August I believe and I absolutely love it! Nothing does it better! After that I go in with the simple kind to skin replenishing rich moisturiser. WHAT A MOUTHFUL but totally worth it because this makes your skin feel like silk. I use it religiously!

Finally I use an eye cream from cliniue called the pep-start eye cream and it helps to cool and just helps to de puff my under eyes because school can be soooo stressful am I right!

Now for some skincare hacks that I use! I only really use two but the first is using sudocreme on spots because no joke this is amazing. I put it on the area of the breakout at night and finally in the morning the spots will have gone down soooo much>>> MAGIC!

Finally using coconut water for spot scars really does help because it lightens them and overtime they seem to disappear… for me anyway

Right guys hope you enjoyed le me know if you used these hacks and I will be uploading soon X


So guys I get asked this question a lot but I wanted to do a blog post on it because I know so many of you feel so stongly about this and for those of you who don’t or have never heard of it todays blog is all about feminism and what feminism actually is. I will be sharing my views and also just diving into what it is al about. But bfore all of that Hi guys welcome back to another fun-filled blog! make sure to leave a like an if you have read this far comment “pineapple” don’t ask why ahaha but without further ado let us continue! WHOOP WHOOP!

So firstly what actually is the definition of feminism?
“Feminism is a range of movements and ideoligies that share a common goal: to define,establish and achieve equal political,economic,cultural,personal and social rights for women. This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. A feminist advocates or supports the rights and equality of women.”

My opinions/views on feminism…
Personally I have never called myself a “feminist” but I do believe in equality and rights for women. Both men and women should be able to do the same things if the person wants to. We are all human, gender doesn’t define you, you can do what you want! It is your life and do with it what you want because it is your story so don’t let anyone else write it for you!

Some famous/well known feminists…
1. Mary wollstonecraft
2. Amelia Bloomer
3. Simone de Beauvoir
4. Alice Paul
5. Lucy stone

Do I know any feminists?
Yes, my best friend sees herself as a feminist as is extremely passionate about her views. She teaches us all about equality and has changed so many peoples mind sets without using force or being pushy. She believes that everyone is free to make their own decision but feels that feminism should be talked about more, to which I agree.

Feminism is all about girl power and equality for both men and women. No matter race, gender,culture or sexuality we are all equal. So guys hope you enjoyed and I will be uploading soon !

Peer pressure when it comes to your virginity

Hey guys! So here is I guess another life update on a topic that should be talked about more because so many people boys and girls deal with it. Make sure to leave a like, comment and click that follow button to see more of what I post and lets get into it!

So todays’ blog is about being pressured into losing your virginity, which I feel is a topic that nobody really talks about because of Peer pressure amongst other things. Guys everyone has different views on this topic, whether the right age is 15 or 19?, until after marriage? Well I am not here to tell you when, or with who but to address the feeling of being pressured in everyday life when it comes to this topic.

Firstly you need to know that it will happen when it happens. You can’t control when someone is ready to be intimate because we are all different and some feel more body conscious than others. Some feel like they are happy with their body and could be intimate whenever but others struggle and must feel so comfortable with the person. I am one of these people. To me I have to feel happy with myself and my body before I can expect someone else to be because I want to love myself before I give someone the chance to love me if that makes sense…

I don’t personally feel pressured by friends but that might be because in a way my friends are like me and believe that when it happens it happens and aren’t going out looking for someone all the time. To me there isn’t a right age, a right time, a right person or a right place because if it happens it happens, it just takes a little longer for some.

Let me know your views on this subject because I would love to know, just be wary that others may not have the same opinion because we all have a say and a different belief to another. Love you guys all so much and I will be uploading very, very soon X

Life update – how I’m feeling

Hey guys! So this might come across as a bit random but I feel like it is needed not only for those of you who might be interested but also as a bit of a mental check in for myself. One of the most unasked question is a simple one and it’s “how am I really feeling?”. It can be hard to answer for some as you have to be honest with yourself and what is going on in your life. If you want me to do regular life check ins then make sure to leave a like and comment how you are feeling right at this moment… sad,happy, angry whatever emotion you are feeling the comment section is open. Also check out my instagram where I will hopefully be uploading some more music stuff and yeah with that let us continue!

Now I fell out with my friend before the summer holidays and now that I am back at school I almost feel like I don’t know whether she is actually serious about being my friend. The way she treated me before everything was what some would say unforgivable but because I give so many people so many chances I don’t know whether letting her back into my life is a good decision? This whole series is about how I am feeling and giving advice to those of you maybe going through the same thing, like a coffee talk/emotions diary.

Well the last thing is a very relatable thing and it is being used and then thrown away metaphorically… I recently finished talking with somebody because it almost felt like they used me to keep themselves busy over the summer and as soon as school came around they finished with me. I’m not a hobby that you can just stop because of one reason or another and to be honest I am glad it happened because who knows how long he would have led me on. Promise me something guys? Never let anyone use you for their own personal pass by because you are worth more than that.

Right guys this made my mid actually quite clear because writing is a way of therapy for me and with that I will be uploading soon X

The truth about Ouji boards

WARNING:I do not suggest that you play a spirit board as it opens a door for the supernatural which could lead in possession or you being haunted. If you do decide to play a spirit board or any other form of a Ouji board then please do your research and make sure to stay safe.

Hey you guys and gals in todays post I am going to be writing all about Ouji boards amongst other types of spirit boards that are known today. Make sure to leave a like,comment if you have ever played a Ouji board and click that follow button to see more of what I post and if you want to learn about these boards then just keep reading…

So fun fact! You can buy a Ouji board in places such as Toys’R’us! And even more weird… they are found in the childrens section… I don’t know about you but I wouldn’t let my kids play with something that lets you contact spirits, but each to their own you know!

A Ouji board can also be known as a spirit board or talking board and is a flat board with the letters of the alphabet, numbers 0-9, yes, no, hello (occasionally) and goodbye painted onto it. The board also comes with a planchette included which is what players must put their fingers on and circle to begin the game. This planchette will spell out words and phrases in order for you to converse with the spirit on the other side. There have been many movies where a Ouji or spirit board has been featured and is a game for thrill-seekers. But how do you play one… You and you friend/s place the planchette on the letter ‘G’ and put your fingers lightly on the sides of the plastic piece. Circle the planchette 3 times and after the third say out loud “Ouji, we are here” the begin to ask your questions. To end the game move the planchette to Goodbye and say goodbye all together.

However.. There are many things that you should not do and many things that are signs of a demon trying to escape the board. Here are some…
1. Do NOT use a spirit board by yourself, you must play with a friend/s
2. Don’t ask questions such as “when am I going to die?” as you will not get a serious answer
3. Don’t ask questions you know the answer to “what’s my middle name?”
4. Don’t let the spirit control the session.

End the game immediately if…
1. The planchette is doing figures of eight
2. The planchette is going through the numbers backwards 9-1
3. The planchette says its’ name is ZOZO/ZAZA (a powerful demon)
4. If it says your death date
5. If it says your full name
6. Parlour tricks (turning lights on/off)
7. If the board spells out LUCIFER

A Ouji board isn’t the only type of Ouji board. Throughout many religions there are different variations of a spirit board, even if they have different names, they do the same thing. For example in the Wicken religion their board is known as a Wicken spell board which is a Ouji board with more symbols but still allows you to contact the other side.

I hope you enjoyed this blog, but I will say it again if you are going to play one of these boards do your research as I did not include everything in this one post. If you want another in the Ouji series let me know and I will be uploading soon

Jack the ripper – Serial Killers

Warning:If you find that you get distressed from hearing gruesome details of murders please do not read this as that will be included. No offence will be taken if you decide not to carry on reading

Hey guys! So recently I listened to a podcast on some of the most terrifying seriel killers in history and one of them was called Jack the ripper. Make sure to leave a like,comment and click that follow button to see more of what I post and if you are interested in learning about this mysterious killer then just keep reading…Also guys if you want me to do more posts on other serial killers let me know in the comments below…

So Jack the Ripper is a name given to an unidentified seriel killer who massacred people in the area of London in 1888. These victims were usually female prostitutes whos throats were cut after abdominal mutilation. Now 3 of the victims had their organs removed which led people to believe that this killer had some surgical knowledge and could be a doctor or nurse of some kind. As more deaths occurred police began to piece them together and it turned out all of these murderes were committed by the same person. Whether the killer was male or female remains unknown to this day as the seriel killer is still unidentified. The murders occurred from April 3rd 1888 to 13th February 1891, 5 people were killed. It was not the amount of people that were murdered that made Jack the ripper stand out but the way he killed them was so gruesome. It makes my stomach turn.

Hope you enjoyed and I will be uploading soon

Valak – The nun movie

Hey you lovely bunch of people! Todays post is inspired by the movie “the nun”. Sadly I haven’t watched it yet because it isn’t in cinemas anymore but as sson as it is out on DVD I will be straight to watching it. But anyways make sure to leave a like,comment and follow to see more of what post and lets get into it!!!

So the demon that the storyline includes is real and goes by the name of Valak. Now in the film the demon is in the form of the nun and made its first appearance in the conjuring 2, and also at the end of Annabelle the creation. Valak is a very real, very powerful demon in hell but does actually not looking like a nun or a woman on that hand. Valak is the president of hell and rides a two headed dragon and can take on the image of a small child with wings. He can give true answers and hidden treasures, and can also control and summon serpants. People who practice dark magic use him in order to find these said treasures, but be warned though because Valak has extreme strengh and is very dangerous and smart. Many theroise that the reason Valak appears as a nun is to mock the fact that religion is said to destroy all evil.

Anyways hope you enjoyed and I will be uploading soon